
Val and Rose's special day, 6th May 1959

VJ and Rose - The big Brahman Cattle Farmers.... socialising

VJ and Elvis the Baboon, Rose and Benni the Honey-badger, Wayne
and Chinga the Cheetah - 1990

Rose, Val and Elvis the family baboon – Christmas 1991 [Elvis lived
with the Hanssen family for 11 years before he sadly passed away. Elvis died
of a heart attack!]

VAL - "Gone Fishing!"

Tammy’s BIG day, 19 April 1987 – VJ giving his bit of
advice on life. . .

VJ and his youngest – Rosalea

VJ; "There is always time for a siesta!"

VJ and Keanu Bassi-Hanssen, born 13 January 2003 – OKONJIMA’S
next generation. . .

Valdemar James Hanssen - he was always a cowboy at heart!

VJ and his beloved Rose who sadly passed away in Aug 1992. This picture
was taken at Tammy’s first-born’s Christening -2 years
before she passed away.
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Some words to add:
"Our most treasured
Dad, VJ, has ascended from this life he loved so well, has left
the children he raised together with our Mom, Rose, to arrive in
Heaven, where God has made provision for humble men and women.
We miss him terribly but his Belief in the Lord and his love for
us all, will guide us forever!"
Tammy, Wayne, Donna & Rosalea
"that’s what made uncle Val so
great. . . he launched many ships he enabled so many around to
soar"
[Vernon Hanssen,
nephew]
"How do you put in words the myriad of feelings that rise
when a man of Uncle Val’s stature moves on? It’s impossible
to do and with the physical distance between us, we can’t even
be there to grieve and celebrate his life with you. Times like this,
you realise it would have been an amazing privilege to have spent
more time with a man like that and learned from him."
[Dale
Hanssen, nephew]
"May the road rise to meet you.
May the wind be always at
your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
And the rain fall
softly on your fields.
AND UNTILL WE MEET AGAIN,
MAY GOD HOLD YOU
IN THE
PALM OF HIS HAND!”"
[An old Irish blessing that VJ always
use to quote when saying good-bye, from Merle Keough, a close family
friend]
"It gives me such a warm
feeling to know that a large part of Val is still there living
on OKONJIMA in his children and grand children. Meeting and knowing
people are like ships sailing on an ocean. Some you merely pass,
others you have the privilege of sailing with for various periods
of time. Our ocean has lost a wonderful partner. Sailing next to
Val was such a warming and peaceful experience. His enthusiasm
and love for the bush and his cattle enriched our lives. Namibia
and the Hanssens share a very special place in my heart. The Hanssens
were our family in Namibia. Thank you very much for allowing us
to share our lives with yours during our happy years in Namibia."
[Dr Rina Grant & Dr Harry Biggs, Skakuza
SA]
"As I type we are in the
middle of nowhere........ north western Queensland approaching
Northern Territory. As we chew up the kilometers we have driven
through a topographical mix of Swakop to Karibib/ Usakos/ Central
Namib and the terrain south of Windhoek........without as many
hills and the further west we go the soil has the slight red colour
like Okonjima . We have come through major cattle country. These
are vast properties with low head of cattle per hectares. I have
seen Hereford and Short-Horn cattle........but am hoping to see
Brahman........that would be my best. My thoughts are very much
with VJ.
We first met VJ when we came to Okonjima as tourists
in 1991 and remember VJ as the strong quiet force behind
ALL the wheels that turned Okonjima. One of my early memories with
VJ are after the sad loss of Rose... On visiting Okonjima I
would walk with VJ through the beautiful Okonjima bush... and
in those days with Elvis at his side. One occasion springs to mind........VJ
was trying to teach Elvis to open and shut farm gates! We set off
late afternoon with Elvis succeeding in opening / closing the gate
from Okonjima farm house into the farm. On our return as the light
was fading Elvis was not moving from the vehicle........ so out I
jumped and could NOT open the gate. Why not, thought I... a dear
baboon called, Elvis had opened and shut this gate a few hours before
and now I was failing.....!!???? On succeeding (I think
the links had twisted!) ..... and returning to the vehicle I am
sure VJ was sharing my same thoughts.... as I can still see his
face laughing on my account!
Also on numerous other visits to Okonjima
be it with Ross, Peter and Andrew or on my own VJ ALWAYS made us
feel SO, SO welcome. How fortunate am I to have been at Okonjima
this June and shared more treasured moments with VJ. MEMORIES
ARE THE SOUP OF LIFE WE TAKE A CUP AND DRINK FROM THIS AND IT KEEPS
US WARM INSIDE......................
[Shez Letten, Brisbane - Australia]
"The years take me back............... 1967......... he
was younger than most of you...... and remember I was a 21 year old
!!! I can recall so vividly the first time I met Val - there he was,
this real, live cowboy standing on Windhoek station.... like a picture
out of an old Western !! The family greeted me - Granny was there
too..... and then Val stepped forward and thrust out his hand saying "Howdy,
so you are Pod's friend!!" That same holiday...... I a young
town girl....... had to help with the inoculation and counting/checking
of the cattle herd. I was assigned the task of ticking numbers in
the book as the cattle went through the 'manga' (cow squeeze)........
and A herd number... or a B herd number!! All was going well until
Val called a number that I couldn't find (or wasn't there).... I
said; "Hang
on that number isn't here" - by that time another animal had
been injected, number had been called and it was through the manga.
I repeated " Hang on I haven't got that one" and Val.......
frustrated with me... strode over and said "you're just a bloody
fool" and
grabbed the book from me - only to discover that he had given me
the wrong herd numbers or something. I was so taken aback that I
retorted; "I may be a bloody fool, but those numbers are NOT
here". From that day on our love and friendship was sealed....
and never did it waiver !!!
Thinking about it now I am so glad we
could laugh about it and I repeated those memories to him........
his reply; "I would never have said that to a lady" What
a compliment.... and how I have treasured seeing him and chatting
with him all these years - whether it was about politics or some
technological advancement. John too enjoyed his company and they
shared much laughter. Such memories of a treasured friendship feeds
ones very soul.
I had a letter from him recently (yes, Val wrote
to me/ us over the last few years!!) I always admired that - he felt
Rose had always kept in touch so he would keep alive our friendship
and contact. My heart aches for you all - for to loose both parents
closes a chapter in your lives. Somehow when one has a parent you
always feel 'a child' - safe and secure, but when they both are gone........
a different loneliness steps in and it takes a while to accept the
final severing of the umbilical cord - a spiritual bond which we
all need.
He was IMMENSELY proud of you all and your achievements.
Having his grandchildren completed his life of contentment. I always
felt an affinity with Val - he had great insight into many things
and one does not need much wealth and opulence in life - what you
need must be all "inside" you
and those of your very own all around you.... what more could a man
ask for!
I bid Val "Farewell my true and trusted friend - and
I know you believed you would see Rose and John again - rejoice with
them and know that we down here below are doing just fine." " May
the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May
the sun shine warm upon your face, The rain fall softly on your fields
And until we meet again May God hold you in the palm of his hand."
[Merle
Keough, Pietermaritzburg, SA]
"Uncle Val has always been the man that comes to mind when
I think of WISDOM. A man who had the intricate webs of this life
more sorted out than all of us. He could look at a situation and
not need to wax eloquently to ‘pad’ a few choice words
but be able to drill down to the meat of a situation and bring a
situation in for landing with a few wise words. When Uncle Val spoke
people listened. I remember buying a book of ‘Cowboy Wisdom’ for
him and realizing that he’s not going to find this funny or
interesting because he could have written the book and would have
more to put in it than this author. Such was the man, unassuming
but a man of incredible depth who didn’t need the world to
know about his talents but was more concerned with his family and
friends and doing what was right for them. We have all been blessed
to have known him and strive to some day come close to having his
impact on others around us!"
[Dale Hanssen, nephew – Salt
Lake City, USA)
"I am so very sorry - your dad was one of a kind and will be missed
by all who were lucky enough to know him. During my time on the farm,
VJ never failed to make me feel one of the family. One of my fondest
memories is being asked by VJ each week if (perhaps optimistically!)
he could borrow "some muscle" to help with the last remaining
cows on the farm. His charm, dry wit and wisdom set him apart in
the eyes of this Englishman and I will forever remember his morning
greeting; "Well Richard, another perfect day in Africa" -
as always, he was spot on."
[Richard Brown, London – UK]
"Val was a wonderful man;
a very special person who touched everyone he met. Val and your
Mom made such an impression on me when I was invited to stay on
the farm twenty-one years ago. While your Mum had me out learning
about herbs and digging up interesting wood shaped by the termites,
your Dad put me to work on the farm and enjoyed teasing me about
not being quite tall enough to comfortably reach over the crush
to dose the cattle. In the evenings, we'd sit and talk about all
sorts of interesting things and I could see where you all got your
Hanssen strength of character, spirit and sense of morality from.
I feel privileged to have had
a lovely chat with Val two weeks ago and we had a very amusing
chat about all of you. He said he was so impressed with your marketing
skills and then referred to Rosalea as "our breeder".
He seemed to be quite tickled to hear that it had taken me twenty-one
years (and a major illness) to receive a compliment from Wayne.
He thought that he, myself, his nephew and everyone else currently
suffering with cancer should form a club! It just shows what a
truly generous-hearted man Val was to be thinking of all of us
when he was so terribly ill. He said he really needed to have his
operation and that God would be with him whatever happened.
We can shed tears that he is gone
or we can smile because he has
lived.
We can close our eyes and pray that he'll come back
or we
can open our eyes and see all he's left.
Our hearts can be empty
because we can't see him
or we can be full of the love we shared.
We can turn our backs on tomorrow and live yesterday
or we can cherish
his memory and let it live on.
We can cry and close our minds, be
empty and turn our backs
or we can do what he'd want: smile, open
our eyes, love and go on."
[Fiona Anderson, London, UK]
"I write to you; Val’s children and grandchildren, .........
My Old Buddy of many years has moved on; doubtless not unhappy as
he looks back over his life so far, in fact I am sure as is his due,
with pride !Surely with eagerness he joins Rose, who was his wife,
companion, friend and at times his spur, all those friends and family
who preceded him in this sure and certain step in the eternal circle
of life.
As I am not far behind him in life’s path it is a
comfort to know he has gone ahead and when my time comes he will
be around to show me the ropes. When someone moves on with whom you
have shared much in life, memories flood in; the Grey Heights house
and the foot and mouth cordon duty ; Pete’s rubber plant, soft
lights and music centre that stirred Rose up so much; Little shouting
Tammy while he and Rose partied! His siesta under a 2 foot thorn
tree in the middle of the Namib while we sweltered in the desert
sun for the required hour; the accursed series 1 Land Rover in first
gear low ratio grinding almost to a halt on the Spreets Hoogte Pass........
I could go on and on and in my mind I relive those great times when
our lives ran together every now and then.
To you his children and
family, I say ,you were all privileged to have him and Rose as your
parents and from what I have seen you have made good use both materially
and spiritually of the wisdom, guidance and love that your folks
gave to you all. My wish for you all is for you to live your lives
to the full knowing that Val and Rose, your Mother and Father are
probably closer to you than ever before and with this comforting
knowledge go on in harmony and love till you too move along. GOD
BLESS YOU ALL!
[NEVILLE AUSTIN – Rose’s cousin, Cape
Town – SA]
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